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HI!!!! ive been with my partner for about 7 months now ^_^ i need help with getting over this phase im going through, for  a while now ive been feeling super jealous whenever he would hang out with his friends. i dont know what the root cause is but i only feel like this because he wouldnt respond as often if he was just by himself, i dont doubt our relationship at all and know that he loves me but this is affecting me bad, whenever he tells me hes hanging out with a friend i always get in a mood and ignore him because he usually talks about what hes doing etc. 

i really want tips on how to get over this feeling!! i know continuing this behaviour will damage our relationship which i dont want (duh!) i eventually do want to talk to him about this as i see communication is important but i really feel ashamed for feeling this way as of this moment and want to at least improve at not acting/feeling like this.

 Any help is appreciated and i would love to hear your guy's opinion ^_^


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i get this smm!! jelousy in relationships can be suuper crushing and causes a lot of strain. i suggest talking to a councillor/therapist and maybe communicating your upset to him if you haven't already.


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Honestly, if you stay in a relationship, he will continue to hang out with his friends. You need to change your mindset.

Try to hang out with your own friends and take your mind off it until he gets back. Maybe work on school/hobbies? You could also try to plan dates for you both or maybe hangouts for him and his friends that you could join in on? And if that doesn't work, just think about how disrespectful it is to ignore him for doing something human, something we all do; enjoy time with others. 

You said there was no doubts in your relationship, so this is most likely just a phase like the honeymoon phase everyone goes through. Though, if this has been an issue in all your romantic relationships, you should probably do some soul searching. Respectfully ofc.

Edit: This sounded really harsh, but it was not intended that way lol. I wish you luck!


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