When I’m not ready to commit to someone it’s because I’m not right within myself . If you don’t truly love yourself & you’re not doing well that’s where your focus needs to be . Not on somebody else because those negative thoughts and feelings will reflect into your relationship . The way I look at it is that a relationship is the physical manifestation of the relationship you have with yourself . It’s all about self love & prioritizing yourself until you’re ready to let somebody into your space