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how to overcome the fear of coming out?

i have indentified myself as a transman for more than one year but im still in the closet

i really wanna come out but i still have that massive fear, yk? i really want some help or at least support of other lgbt people... im really confused about all that, being trans, accepting that i'm not what my parents want, expecially my mom that always wanted a girl

all of that is real confuse i feel im gonna explode or die fo dysphoria >_<


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Reply by vcka

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don't come out until you feel completely safe doing so
i admire that you want to do it for other people but remember yourself too!!!
it's really nice to come out
i have been identifying as non binary for around 3 years now and i still haven't told my family or coworkers etc\\its kinda scary
all my other friends know and i have that support
so you can stagger it\like come out to friends and other people one by one and eventually you can tell your family and still have a support system if god forbid they aren't accepting
but they have witnessed this surge of identity crises too and would be aware that its a normal and common thing so its not as scary nowadays :P


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