question for other femboys

f1nn5ter is so real tbh! for me it was my sister^^! we're bsfs n she introduced me to a lot of fem clothes when she grew out of em bc i'm short n was interested in stuff like that!

felix argyle hehe :3

seeing a guy being so darn feminine was an "ohhh" for me lol

Honestly idk. I was never super into being stereotypically manly and seeing femboys in anime and on social media kinda inspired me.

For me it was probably when I was in middle school getting into Undertale and saw the character Mettaton and was fascinated by it and wanted to be like that and thought it looked cool I was also kind of fascinated with androgyny I'm pretty sure because of anime characters that and I believe Visual Kei was also an influence because I even saw men wearing make up and cross-dressing and looking femme (some did look convincingly male as well while having a mix of feminine and masculine traits) but I still thought it looked cool and what-not.

I also am just not into things masculine or anything traditionally masculine I don't want a beard or a hairy chest I don't want to be some gym dude type person I don't like being dirty or wrestling and I don't really care that much for sports.... I have nothing against masculine men and I have friends like that and I respect them for who they are.

There are a few things I like traditionally masculine such as video games, seinen manga, and bionicles but I prefer to be femme

I always got mad at the world because I wasn't able to properly fit in with the world and because people would laugh at me or feel confusion and misunderstand me but... I am over that now and want to feel less nervous about myself and feel more confident in who I am I just want to express myself.

I do apologize that I typed a monologue or if some things sound a bit stupid.

well the "cis straight guy" aged poorly here lol. thanks f1nn (jk i support them obvs)

Honestly i started as a kid because i wanted to be different, then i liked femininity more and more and now i'm trying to get back to be more femboy, even tho i can't be as feminine yet...

but it's still fun tho

I always understood myself as non-binary because I didn't care about "gender norms", so it was something natural for me. but, I always had difficulty identifying myself in the masculine umbrella because I wasn't an "alpha male" until I started following some femboys on social media like tiktok and realized that it was okay to be feminine.

Maybe you can start with a cute femboy costume