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Does anyone feel the same?

Hello hello, I'm skull (or at least that's my name here)

I know that more people right now have problems and are possibly going through the same or similar situations to mine.

but I wanted to describe a little of what I experience, not as a relief, but to know if a person goes through the same thing. Lately my life feels monotonous, I have friends, but I feel alone, I have a partner, but I feel unloved, I have people who care about me, but I feel isolated. I am a person who, when going through a bad time, distances himself from everyone. I recently just dealt with a crisis in which I distanced myself from many people and did not talk to many others. I distance myself for my mental health and that of others. My environment is used to it and I am used to the fact that when my crisis ends I go back to talking to my environment in the same way I have always done, however this time it is different, my environment moved away and distanced itself a little from me. I have never been a very sociable person, but nor a very antisocial person, however I have never had a best friend, I have never had a special person or a special circle of friends, I have friends, but I know that no matter how special I consider a friend of mine or a person around me, he or she would prefer another person a thousand times over me. It's the feeling of not feeling important to anyone that has been consuming me. I recently spoke again with old friends I had in high school, they are still as close as ever and seem somewhat distant towards me, I understand why, I walked away first, but it is sad to know that maybe if I had stayed with them right now I would feel that I belong to what they are "a group" 

and I think that's the problem with me, I can't feel like I belong to something or I end up moving away from what I love or want the most. Everyone has someone they will consider their priority, but I don't have someone who considers me their priority. No matter when I prioritize someone, I will never be equally important to them.

Someone else happens?

sorry for the long text :[



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Reply by Baigvaet

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It sounds like you're going through a very difficult time emotionally, and your feelings of loneliness and isolation are weighing heavily on you. It's not uncommon for people to feel this way, especially during challenging periods in their lives. Your experience of feeling disconnected from others, even when surrounded by people who care about you, is something many people can relate to. It's important to remember that your feelings are valid and that it's okay to reach out for support when you need it. Even if it feels like everyone else has someone they prioritize over you, that doesn't diminish your worth as a person. You deserve to feel loved, valued, and appreciated just like anyone else. If you're comfortable, consider talking to a therapist or counselor about what you're going through. They can provide you with support and guidance as you navigate these feelings and help you develop strategies for coping with them. Additionally, reaching out to friends or loved ones and expressing how you're feeling can also help strengthen your connections with them. Remember, you're not alone in feeling this way, and there are people who care about you and want to support you through this difficult time. I must say that I also experience similar things. But that's normal, as far as I'm concerned. Now people are constantly divided into different groups, and you feel redundant everywhere. Especially also if you have problems with physical health. I have asthma and can't make friends because of it. Although I recently heard about the Apowus nebulizer and decided to get myself this APOWUS. I think problems with asthma will become easier. But I don't think it will be so easy for me to overcome loneliness. Know, friend, that you are not alone and we will always be able to overcome these problems, the main thing is to stay strong.


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Reply by Zarlods

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Hello! I am very sorry that you feel this way, but it seems to me that it is necessary to try to fix life on a basic level. It requires extraordinary efforts, but you have to try for your future. Believe me, I know what I'm talking about. When your basic level of activity is full of poor sleep, poor nutrition, lack of physical activity. Personally, I believe that sleep is the most important thing you have. When you don't sleep well, depression can really grab you and distort your understanding of everything that is happening around you. This is biochemistry, my friend! Therefore, I personally solved this problem with the help of Magicteam White Noise Machine developed by Magicteam. I listen to white noise and the quality of my sleep has greatly improved. Therefore, stress and depression left me a long time ago. I am very glad to have found this solution and recommend you to try it. After all, when you sleep well, eat well and do sports, your life is MUCH better.


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