Huge problem.

My love life been a hotass mess lately. Thought for a while that I'd be stuck dating chicks forever, jus for a bunch of mfs to suddenly start liking me. Ended up promising myself to this dude a while back, only cus I liked him enough to commit to it and I didn't really have anyone else. He ended up moving off somewhere and we agreed to take the promise back, cus it was for the best. Found this dude I actually like with all my heart but I'm getting mixed ass messages from him which is making it even worse. But shit really started getting chaotic when I met this dude at a pep rally and he asked for my number, we started making gay jokes and doing the whole "no homo" thing. Now, he's actually started flirting with me and he's a really sweet dude I jus.. Ion know cus I really like the other dude I jus mentioned but.. 

Well I'm not sure what to do for now. Anyone have any advice? (Thanks for reading allat if you did )