These are really good questions.
For ME, being strong has become MY pushing force, MY saving grace, and MY sense of PURPOSE. The reason for all three of these, is simple. Strength is my driving force. Strength is my motivation. Stregnth is my happiness. If I can wake up everyday, even if I con't want to, even if i may have a slightly off mindslip, or I'm in a depressive state, I know that my stregnth for my babies, or my family, a friend, a stranger, helped PUSH someone else. It created light. It made a space for love...whatever it did, affected, filled in.....I DID that off an untouchable feeling!