Option one is definitely tempting, which is why I included option two to put into perspective if the roles we reversed and we were forced to align with our opposition's perception of freedom, which may totally go against our own, it would likely end up very bad.
Each option, everyone loses to some extent, which I feel like is the reality we're facing. I couldn't really think of a 5th option, except maybe we divided ourselves further into factions and each faction had their own ideology, which would end up putting us in situations like the Divergent series, where such narrowed perception was our downfall, when embracing many perceptions is our strength.
To an extent that's already how our world system is in a way, with each nation having their own enforced set of rules and regulations, but I think our current system is also a mixture of option #1 and #2 as well, where opposing ideologies are constantly competing for power, never contented, rarely compromising.
Complete anarchy would allow those who do the most evil of deeds to get away with it. Maybe justice would be served in some form, but I doubt it would be civilized. Witch hunts would probably be really common, people doing terrible things to others based on misunderstandings, miscommunications, and nothing could really prevent a mob mentality. As nice as it would be to have total freedom without limits in the best of ways, I just can't sit with the thought of evil being enabled to do the most atrocious things while innocent people who just want to live their lives in peace will be left to suffer against the most extreme of extremes. Everyone would have to learn how to defend themselves, their possessions and land claims, always sleep with one eye open. I don't think I'd want to live like that.
I'm with option 4 as well. Though part of me is fearful what some of the compromises would be, it definitely seems like the most realistic solution that can make everyone happy and contented to an extent. It's probably the closest to a peaceful society as we're going to get.