I don’t feel like spacehey remaining “lowkey” or becoming “mainstream” is really even a matter here.
This site seems to fill out a very specific niche, which is to simulate the layout and functionality of an old school social network web page. the fact is, not everyone online is looking for a “retro” theme. mostly, people are looking for a straight forward way to follow and update on creating and commenting over posts across platforms with other close connections or mutual random participants.
All that said, there are so many other networking avenues available which ngl better fill out those requirements, this place has nothing to worry about if keeping together some form of “consensus” is the concern lol.
Really tho, the big influx is moving towards more the direction of alternative competitors like lemmy, mastodon, peertube, even GNU social is soon approaching on top of whatever Bluesky is gonna turn out to be.
Moreover, I hope no one takes it the wrong way this is just me, but spacehey is -not- the de facto platform for a retro or old school styled network. There are several differently configured avenues which serve several diff purposes. Pubnix are full blown public access mainframe systems accessible via terminal program to take part in either a custom userspace or interactive BBS system circa 70s - 90s internet (that’s right, 70s, look up ‘ARPAnet’).
In fact, I’d implore a lot of you who might be technologically proficient enough to go ahead and openly setup and explore discovering much of these old, new, and even hybridized protocols including gopher:// (the original web), gemini:// (memex-realized), IPFS (p2p nodes), freenet, i2p, the list goes on, there’s even an IPFS-Gemini bridge protocol to serve capsules over decentralized nodes.
TL;DR - This place has nothing to worry about, there’s a boom happening across all manner of smallnet and deepweb, and that said i’d invite much of you who are reasonable and rational to expand your horizons and get out of your comfort zone a bit discovering protocols and networks old and new. You kight be surprised.