Under 18 relationship advice

I need advice on how to talk to girls pls

One of my advices for people in
relationships or seeking one is first of all being yourself. Never ever act
like a different person just for someone to like you!! You're amazing person as
you are and you don't have to change. I know it's kind of obvious, but it’s
really important. 

Other advice in this topic would be definitely to
avoid toxic relationships. Don't be afraid to break up with a partner who is
not treating you right. You'll find a good person who will really love you,
just give yourself time and be patient!! Remember, that you're important and
worthy. Healthy relationship is when both of you (or more if you're poly, I
don't have anything against it if you are!!) care about each other(s) and trust
yourselves. It’s not real love if you’re for each other only when it’s alright
and don’t care when anything bad happens, but also when one (or both) of you
only tells sad things about themselves or vents all the time (TALKING ABOUT
YOUR PROBLEMS AND NEEDS IS IMPORTANT, BUT DON’T MAKE YOUR RELATIONSHIP JUST
ABOUT BEING A PSYCHOLOGIST!!!!)



Last but not least, take care of relationships you’re already in! Don’t forget
to check on your loved ones as well as your friends. Relationships needs to be
taken care of, it’s not only about just “having a lover”!!

Maybe things I said are common facts, but
are important basics for starting and keeping relationships. If you read the
whole thing, thanks for your time and remember to love yourself!! You’re loved
and important, love ya take careee!! <3

I need advice on how to move on from my evil codependent relationship that ended a year ago

^^^^ moving on is a process. one thing you can't really expect it to be is linear. there is no right or wrong way to cope with a loss of any kind

my advice, from my personal experience; try not to beat yourself up about it. it's a lot easier said than done, but blaming yourself or bringing yourself down because of whatever it is that happened will only make you feel worse and slow down your progress. you are not the worst, you will not be alone forever, you are not unloveable. you loved, and you lost, and that's okay! it happens to everyone at least once.

it's good that you got out of a codependent relationship. one thing i should note is that if you might find yourself feeling caught up in it in a "what if" way - wondering if you had just done some things different, it wouldn't have ended the way it did - that could be a sign you're imagining it differently than how it went down. it ended for a reason, and even if it would've gone better had things been different, dwelling on it will not change your reality and will only get you stuck.

i don't know your situation entirely so i can't provide advice that would be super significant, but that is some of my thoughts for you as i'm also dealing with moving on currently.

good luck, stay safe, and take care. you will always hold a place here and there are always things waiting for you.