Here's some straight info on how to stop drinking - a)A person needs to stop imbibing for three months. b)You then make a clear-headed decision about whether you want to stay that way. c)Use the time-out method (based on American football) to make sure that you don't forget.
Let's end 12stepism. The endeavor here is to create, eventually, a solid alternative mental health route. That confronts the monster A.A. so that we are no longer made to go to a never ending story without first knowing how to exit the train!
Recovery programs will probably continue for some time to recommend the A.A. route directly or indirectly. So it may be the power of "word of mouth" that saves people from this trap.