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What is your gender?


What are your pronouns?


When did you first realise you were trans?


Did you change your name?


Are you out to your family?


Are you out to your friends?


What did they think of your coming out (if applicable)?


Do you have trans friends?


Did your sexuality change when you came out?


Did/do you take hormones?


Do you have penis envy?


Do you plan on medically transitioning?


Upon transitioning, did you notice a difference in the way society/the public treats you (if applicable)?


Do you have any trans headcanons or idols?


Who gives you the most gender envy?


Any tips for passing?


Do you wish you were never born trans?


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Reply by ⛧♱Wes♱⛧

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What is your gender?

Male

What are your pronouns?

He/him

When did you first realise you were trans?

About 3-4 yrs ago

Did you change your name?

Yes, I changed it twice

Are you out to your family?

Yep, most of them!

Are you out to your friends?

Yep!

What did they think of your coming out (if applicable)?

They were supportive, one already knew I was trans before I told him and my other best friend is trans themselves 

Do you have trans friends?

My best friend of about 7.5 yrs is trans!

Did your sexuality change when you came out?

Yes I identified as lesbian in third to fifth grade and now I identify as a gay male

Did/do you take hormones?

No unfortunately but I’m planning to!

Do you have penis envy?

Very much so

Do you plan on medically transitioning?

Yes hopefully

Upon transitioning, did you notice a difference in the way society/the public treats you (if applicable)?

I honestly have terrible memory issues and can’t remember half my life 

Do you have any trans headcanons or idols?

I head cannon Kyle from South Park as trans

Who gives you the most gender envy?

Robert smith 

Any tips for passing?

I’ve noticed I’ve been correctly gendered everytime I wear hoods for some reason?

Do you wish you were never born trans? 

Yes very much so 


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Reply by Xx_dani_angel_xX

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What is your gender?

male

What are your pronouns?

he/him

When did you first realise you were trans?


i think,when i was 14 y.o. in the pandemic quanrantine


Did you change your name?

yes,my name is daniel


Are you out to your family?

of course not


Are you out to your friends?

yes,for sure,they are the ones i can trust.


What did they think of your coming out (if applicable)?

ones acted shocked but accepted me of course.


Do you have trans friends?

yess i do.


Did your sexuality change when you came out?

yes of course,i used to like girls a loot,then,i liked both. then i thought i would be assexual forever,but now i am pan (i thought i was gay bc i developed more attraction to boys).

i am demissexual/pan.


Did/do you take hormones?

not yet,i want to.


Do you have penis envy?

no i don't,i am ok with this.i wanna stay with my vag hehehhsnd.


Do you plan on medically transitioning?

yess,top surgery and hormones i want a mustaache


Upon transitioning, did you notice a difference in the way society/the public treats you (if applicable)?

i didn't transition yet,but saying by the way i dress..people just say to me to dress more feminine.


Do you have any trans headcanons or idols?

yess of course.


Who gives you the most gender envy?

my boyfriend,my beeautiful male friends literally all of them. they are gorgeous.


Any tips for passing?

uuhh, i didn't understand this question sorry :(


Do you wish you were never born trans?

i dont think i should ask myself this

i am this way,if i was not,who would i be in this world?

i am who i am.

this is me.


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Reply by soupcriminal

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What is your gender?

....probably transmasc/male


What are your pronouns?

he/they

When did you first realise you were trans?

i was like 13

Did you change your name?

yeah

Are you out to your family?

nope (except like 2 chill cousins)

Are you out to your friends?

yeah

What did they think of your coming out (if applicable)?

my friends were chill abt it 

Do you have trans friends?

yeah, but only 1

Did your sexuality change when you came out?

nope

Did/do you take hormones?

not yet


Do you plan on medically transitioning?

yeah but britain is a shitty place for that so idk if itll ever happen

Do you have any trans headcanons or idols?

laura jane grace (of Against Me!

Who gives you the most gender envy?

gerard way 

Any tips for passing?

wish i knew

Do you wish you were never born trans?

no i love being trans <3


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Reply by HELLERLINE

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What is your gender?

Male

What are your pronouns?

He/him

When did you first realise you were trans?

When I was 14

Did you change your name?

Yeah

Are you out to your family?

Yeah

Are you out to your friends?

Yeah

What did they think of your coming out (if applicable)?

 My friends and other family were accepting, my Dad wasn't

Do you have trans friends?

Yes

Did your sexuality change when you came out?

No

Did/do you take hormones?

Not yet

Do you have penis envy?

Yes

Do you plan on medically transitioning?

Yes

Do you have any trans headcannons or idols?

Rick Sanchez is trans and he's pan too, that's all I can think of right now

Who gives you the most gender envy?

Jerma985

Any tips for passing?

I don't know

Do you wish you were never born trans?

Kinda


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Reply by RatGoblin

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What is your gender?   

Just Some Guy

What are your pronouns?   

He/him/his

When did you first realise you were trans?   

I didn't fully put it all together until I was about 18, and I didn't start transitioning socially or medically until about 21.

Did you change your name?   

Socially but not legally. My deadname is so close to my chosen name that if someone sees it I can pass it off as a typo, so it's not too high a priority. Plus a legal name and gender marker change costs like $300 where I live, and like, I could buy so many boba teas with that money!

Are you out to your family?   

Yeah. My little sister was one of the first people I came out to, and she was extremely kind and supportive. I ended up coming out to my parents by just quietly starting to refer to myself as a man until they picked up on it. They've also been amazing about it. When I first started T, my dad mailed me an empty cigar box so I could have "a manly place to keep [my] syringes and testosterone."

Are you out to your friends?   

Friends, yes. Coworkers, it's complicated.

Do you have trans friends?   

Hell yeah! And a wonderful nonbinary spouse!

Did your sexuality change when you came out?   

Yeah! Talking to other trans folks, I'm learning this is weirdly common! Before realizing I was a guy, I thought I was a butch lesbian. But transitioning brought out an interest in men that I'd never noticed before. It turns out everyone is cute!

Did/do you take hormones?   

Yep! Been on T for about 6 years, and stabbing myself with the needle still freaks me out sometimes.

Do you have penis envy?   

I think it would be nice to have a dick in the same way I think it would be nice to have a boat. Fun in theory, but I acknowledge that I'll probably never be able to afford one, and even if I could, there's other stuff I'd rather spend that money on. Plus it'd be a hassle learning how to use it, and even more of a hassle figuring out what to do with it when I'm not using it. Okay, maybe the analogy got away from me but you get the point.

Do you plan on medically transitioning?   

I used to want top surgery, but I think I've changed my mind on that. Most of my chest dysphoria is gone now that I've been on T a few years and there's hair on my chest. I look in the mirror and the joy and excitement over the fuzz kinda negates the nebulous discomfort over the boobs. I'm lucky to be able to bind all day at work with no problems and I hate undergoing surgery, so I'm probably gonna stay non-op.

Upon transitioning, did you notice a difference in the way society/the public treats you (if applicable)?   

Oh my gosh yes. Back when I presented as a woman I would get a lot of condescending, "Oh, you can't lift that heavy thing, let me get that for you,"-type shit. There was one job where a man didn't believe I could even lift the chainsaw I had been trained to use. Now that I'm presenting as a man, sometimes at work I am called specifically to lift heavy things for people. It makes me happy in a weird affirming way, but it's also dumb as hell considering I am physically in worse shape now than I was back then.

Any tips for passing?   

Oh I hate the concept of "passing" so much. Trying to control every single other human being's perception of me is futile and exhausting. I get that it's neccessary sometimes for safety to want to not get clocked, but it sucks so bad. If you want strangers to gender you correctly, wear your pronouns somewhere visible. If they see that and misgender you anyways, they're either illiterate or an asshole.

Do you wish you were never born trans?

No. Although it was difficult growing up before I knew I was trans, and just feeling like there's something wrong with me but not being able to name it, that was an integral part of developing into who I am today, and without it I would be a different person. Also, the process of transitioning has brought so much joy into my life. I have the perspective needed to fall in love with the things my body does that a cis dude might take for granted: my lowering voice, my growing facial hair, and even my receding hairline. I wouldn't trade that for anything.


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Reply by Cofecito

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¿Cuál es su género?

Soy un chico


¿Cuales son tus pronombres?

Él 


¿Cuándo te diste cuenta por primera vez de que eras trans?

Cuando tenía 5 años y me enoje porque un niño me llamo "niña" y me enoje y le dije que era un niño y cuando la maestra me que efectivamente era una niña empecé a llorar como solo un niño puede


¿Cambiaste tu nombre?

legalmente aún no, pero lo hare


¿Estás con tu familia?

no, no por mi seguridad 


¿Estás saliendo con tus amigos?

Si ellos me quieren y me aceptan 


¿Qué pensaron de tu salida del armario (si corresponde)?

Ya estaba fuera del clóset cuando me conocieron, Aique no tuvo ningún problema, la mayoría nisiquiera sabe mi nombre muerto


¿Tienes amigos trans?

Como 3, Miriam, Liam y Oliver 


¿Cambió tu sexualidad cuando saliste del armario?

no, siempre ha sido bisexual 


¿Tomaste/tomas hormonas?

Aun no pero planeo hacerlo en un futuro 


¿Tienes envidia del pene?

no, tengo mejores orgasmos 


¿Planea hacer una transición médica?

Si


¿Tienes algún headcanon o ídolo trans?

No


¿Quién te da más envidia de género?

Él pecho plano


¿Desearías no haber nacido nunca trans?

Aveces pero también siento que ser así me permite tener experiencia únicas, me quiero, se que sería más fácil ser cisgenero pero aún así no me lamento 


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Reply by : luna !? ੈ✩‧₊˚

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What is your gender?

i dont know

What are your pronouns?

they/she

When did you first realise you were trans?

i dont really know, i've always felt off?

Did you change your name?

mhm! it's luna

Are you out to your family?

yeah, sexuality wise 

Are you out to your friends?

mhm!

What did they think of your coming out (if applicable)?

 supported me

Do you have trans friends?

A LOT.

Did your sexuality change when you came out?

nope

Did/do you take hormones?

no

Do you have penis envy?

sometimes, not really

Do you plan on medically transitioning?

no

Upon transitioning, did you notice a difference in the way society/the public treats you (if applicable)?

no

Do you have any trans headcanons or idols?

yes

Who gives you the most gender envy?

people who look like both genders

Any tips for passing?

no :(

Do you wish you were never born trans?

idk  if im funny trans yet? i need help


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Reply by TYSON

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What is your gender?

male

What are your pronouns?

he him

When did you first realise you were trans?

in the words of transgender, when i was 10, but id felt that way for a very long time

Did you change your name?

yup

Are you out to your family?

that shits messy, kinda but no? it was years ago and it didnt go well. they just pretend like like it didnt happen i guess

Are you out to your friends?

yes

What did they think of your coming out (if applicable)?

friends are fine, but all of them have known me as is, i didnt come out to them. families difficult

Do you have trans friends?

not anymore no

Did your sexuality change when you came out?

ive always been fluid in that way. i dont care who i like as long as theyre good

Did/do you take hormones?

i will do yea

Do you have penis envy?

uhh

Do you plan on medically transitioning?

yea

Upon transitioning, did you notice a difference in the way society/the public treats you (if applicable)?

yea i guess, people talk to me more and are nicer when im passing

Do you have any trans headcanons or idols?

no

Who gives you the most gender envy?

aussie surf rock guys

Any tips for passing?

stop wearing your pants so high. mullets, not shags or nothing actual mullets, stop putting mascara in your eyebrows, dyed hair is a massive disadvantage, and when you get your hair cut get it squared off

Do you wish you were never born trans?

aaaaabsolutely


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